Month: October 2019
Beth Moore / False Prophet
Beth Moore came on the scene about twenty five years ago, as a leader of women’s gatherings. She was originally reputable as being faithful to the Word of God. Well…..no longer. The wheels have long since come off of her wagon, and she has become yet another casualty of apostasy. She is heavily ingrained in the “Me Too” movement, Feminism, Word Of Faith teachings and many other undesirable beliefs both seen and heard below. Because of Him, Pastor Steve <><
Repent And Be Cleansed By The Blood Of Christ Before Judgment
By thy words thou shalt be condemned. Matthew 12:37
There’s no escaping our own history. Like a ball and chain, it will follow every unrepentant sinner to the final judgment. Can anyone imagine the horror of having every blasphemous, ungrateful, hateful, or malicious thing we’ve ever spoken replayed before the Judge of all the earth? What possible plea of innocence could we make? But, the blood of Jesus Christ cleanses us from all sin, and releases us into eternal absolution. -Rick Morse
Long my imprisoned spirit lay Fast bound in sin and nature’s night; Thine eye diffused a quickening ray, I woke, the dungeon flamed with light; My chains fell off, my heart was free; I rose went forth and followed Thee. -Charles Wesley
How The Loneliness Epidemic Is Linked To Pornography
Breaking News Updates – October 22
How The Loneliness Epidemic Is Linked To Pornography
Over the past several years, there has been a surge in people who experience loneliness. As it continues to grow, another epidemic continues to be on the rise – pornography. Research has shown that loneliness is one of the main factors in porn addiction.
By Luke Gibbons/KingdomWorks October 22, 2019
Over the past several years, there has been a surge in people who experience loneliness. As it continues to grow, another epidemic continues to be on the rise – pornography. Research has shown that loneliness is one of the main factors in porn addiction.
According to Sam Guzman, the co-author of Transformed by Beauty, “Research shows rates of loneliness among adults have doubled from 20% to 40% since the 1980s. And according to the General Social Survey, an annual study of societal conditions in the United States, the average American has not a single close friend to confide in or rely on in a crisis. Not one.”
And the problem is not just in America. In Britain, for example, nine million people said they frequently or always feel lonely. The British government even created the position of Minister for Loneliness to begin to address the issue.
Recent research by Cigna found that:
• Nearly half of Americans report sometimes or always feeling alone (46 percent) or left out (47 percent).
• One in four Americans (27 percent) rarely or never feel as though there are people who really understand them.
• Two in five Americans sometimes or always feel that their relationships are not meaningful (43 percent) and that they are isolated from others (43 percent).
• One in five people report they rarely or never feel close to people (20 percent) or feel like there are people they can talk to (18 percent).
• Generation Z (adults ages 18-22) is the loneliest generation.
A Link Between Loneliness And Porn Usage
Research is showing that loneliness and porn usage have a definite connection. Guzman noted,
“A recent study published in the Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy reported a strong positive association between loneliness and pornography use. Put simply, if you’re chronically lonely, you’re far more likely to use porn on a regular basis.”
A YouGov survey found that “Millennials are more likely than older generations to report that they have no acquaintances (25% of Millennials say this is the case), no friends (22%), no close friends (27%), and no best friends (30%).”
But loneliness is not just a problem for younger men and women.
According to Tim Rollins, a research director at Stop Procrastinating, “Our survey shows that Internet pornography is now affecting every generation. Older men are either turning to pornography out of loneliness or because they have access to it through the Internet. But there is evidence that Internet pornography is fueling loneliness and depression.”
Is Porn A Cause Of Loneliness For Singles?
Porn can trap a single man or woman into an ongoing cycle of loneliness. This can keep them from developing healthy relationships with their friends, family, and people in general.
Butler explained, “The mind fantasizes and biologically the sexual system tricks the brain into imagining it’s having a relationship experience and can thus mask loneliness–but only temporarily. In this way, pornography exploits the sexual system but only tricks the brain for a while. The user can’t escape the fact that when the experience is over, they’re still alone in an empty room.”
“So, when sexual intoxication wears off, the experience may only end up excavating a deeper emptiness–a setup for a vicious cycle. We hypothesize that this experience could create the potential for getting trapped in the short-term, feel-good escape of pornography joined with long-term loneliness.”
You may be using pornography to medicate pain from your childhood. Or maybe you have deep emotional trauma that makes you try to avoid personal interaction. Using porn to avoid relationships that may add more pain to your life will not relieve the hurt you feel.
Michele Langmead wrote for Focus on the Family that
“We can’t go back to childhood to reclaim the love we missed out on, but that doesn’t mean the emptiness can’t be filled and the losses restored. Even though we can’t change the way we were raised, there is hope for healing.”
Porn Leads To Isolation
Loneliness and pornography create an unhealthy cycle that can feel almost impossible to break free from. A guy turns to pornography to sooth his loneliness, feels worthless as a result, which makes it even less likely that he will pursue a relationship.
Paul Loosemore, MA PLPC, the author of 21 Movements Towards Life, wrote, “When pleasure, motivation and relational interest are low, isolation is a common experience. Furthermore, a porn addiction can cause people to spend countless hours searching for porn in secret. Unfortunately, the isolation that is commonly built also serves to create further despair and negative experiences.”
It is vital to get connected to a small group of godly men who know first-hand about struggling with porn. They will provide you with support and encouragement. Furthermore, they will not judge you because they know how intense the battle is.
“Accountability will help end isolation and provide support for changing behaviors. Setting up boundaries, removing access and refraining from sex will allow the brain’s reward pathway to slowly recalibrate,” said Loosemore.
“Coupling relational growth and rewiring the brain is a powerful practice because relationships can become satisfying and sustaining. Then eventually sex can be enjoyed again within the realms of its intended function.”
You Can Be Free
How do you begin to experience the same healing that others have found? By boldly stepping out of your lonely comfort zone and seeking the help of other men.
Samuel James, who serves on the Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission, said,
“You are not too far gone, no matter how addicted you may be or how many people have been hurt by your sin. The gospel invites you to come to God, not so He can congratulate you or condemn you, but that He might adopt you.”
“God alone can take your loneliness and turn it into something beautiful, for His glory and your good, ” said Ashley Chesnut of The Church at Brook Hills. “But this requires entrusting your loneliness to him–leaning into his character and trusting his sufficiency. So the next time loneliness hits, bring it to your Savior and Friend, confident that He cares for you.”
An End to Isolation
Dr Ted Roberts is the host of a cinematic course called the Conquer Series, which is helping over a million men find freedom from pornography. Dr Roberts explains, how healing comes through being in community, “You were wounded in community; therefore, you have to be healed in community.”
This is why it is so important that in overcoming pornography and isolation, people have to be in a group. The Conquer Series is used in a group setting where men find support, accountability and encouragement.
Jay, a Conquer Group leader in Michigan, contacted us to share his experience. “In my first group, one young man had a fiancée who said if he did not get help, she would not marry him. They were married last September.”
David in Austin, Texas, wrote,
“I have been part of many many men’s groups and at least three other purity groups. There was a time many years ago that I truly believed I could never be free. Well that was/is a lie! I joined a local group to watch the Conquer Series to stay free, get more free, and help those still in bondage. There is nothing else like this program!”
Learn more about bringing healing to your community at ConquerSeries.com
Read more at https://www.prophecynewswatch.com/article.cfm?recent_news_id=3541#sYzbQ83v6FbFWt4M.99
SCARS
Brokenness is the key to Christian growth, as noted throughout the Bible, cited often on this blogsite, and we feel it in everyday life. We are broken when we come to salvation, followed by innumerable trials during our lives. The well known Christian contemporary recording artist Toby Mac just lost his son, 21-Year-Old Truett Foster McKeehan, two or three days ago. Medics responded to a call of cardiac arrest; the cause of death not yet determined. Toby recently wrote the song Scars in 2018, about the hard experiences of life. He wrote it when his eldest son first left home for California. Now he is again living his own song, and experiencing one of the hardest losses that one can receive. The story of his tragic loss, the song and lyrics are in the cited article below. The Lord bless him throughout this valley and test of faith, Pastor Steve
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Christian Rapper TobyMac’s 21-Year-Old Son, Truett Foster McKeehan, Dies Unexpectedly at Home
“Truett did pass away at home in the Nashville area sometime Tuesday night or Wednesday morning,” a representative for TobyMac confirmed in a statement to various outlets
By Jordan Runtagh October 24, 2019 03:00 PM
Truett Foster McKeehan, the son of Christian rapper TobyMac, has died suddenly at his Tennessee home at the age of 21. According to various outlets, the details of his death are not yet known.
“Truett did pass away at home in the Nashville area sometime Tuesday night or Wednesday morning,” a representative for TobyMac confirmed in a statement to Entertainment Tonight. “Cause of death has not been determined.”
The Davidson County Medical Examiner’s office confirmed he died Wednesday after medics responded to a cardiac arrest call at the family’s home.
“Toby was traveling back from Canada and did not get home to be with his family until after midnight last night so there is no statement,” representatives told The Tennessean. “We just ask that everyone please be respectful of their privacy during this time and allow them to grieve their loss.”
Truett Foster McKeehan and TobyMac TobyMac/Instagram